An engagement ring and wedding band are far more than beautiful pieces of jewelry. They are symbols of love, commitment, and personal style. How you choose to wear them tells your story.
Traditionally, these rings follow long-established customs, but modern couples are increasingly embracing individual expression. Whether you prefer a classic pairing or a contemporary twist, understanding the different ways to wear your engagement ring and wedding band will help you find the style that feels most meaningful to you.
What Finger Does Your Engagement Ring and Wedding Band Go On?
Tradition places both the engagement ring and wedding band on the fourth finger of the left hand, known as the “ring finger.” This practice traces back to ancient Rome, where it was believed that a vena amoris, or “vein of love,” connected that finger directly to the heart.
While the symbolism remains romantic, customs vary across the world:
- In the Netherlands, Germany, Russia, and Greece, wedding bands are often worn on the right hand.
- In Jewish ceremonies, the ring may first be placed on the right index finger and later moved to the left hand.
- Some modern couples choose placement based on comfort, tradition, or the design of their rings.
At Royal Asscher, we believe there is no “right” way — only the way that best represents your love and lifestyle.
Should You Wear Both an Engagement Ring and a Wedding Band?
Traditionally, both rings are worn together. The engagement ring symbolizes the promise of marriage, while the wedding band represents the lifelong bond that follows. However, personal choice defines today’s bridal style. Some wear only their engagement ring for everyday elegance, while others choose just their wedding band for a minimalist look. Many couples enjoy stacking, layering multiple rings to create a personalized story, from proposal to anniversary.
Whether you wear one or both, each Royal Asscher creation, from our iconic Royal Asscher Cut diamond solitaires to elegant pavé wedding bands, is designed to complement and enhance one another beautifully.
Ways to Wear Your Engagement Ring and Wedding Band
There are several beautiful and symbolic ways to wear your rings. Here are the most popular:
- Traditional Style: Wedding Band First
In classic tradition, the wedding band is placed on the finger first, followed by the engagement ring. This symbolizes that your marriage, your bond sits closest to the heart. It’s a timeless choice favored for its sentimental meaning and elegant appearance.
- Chronological Style: Engagement Ring First
Some brides prefer to wear the engagement ring first, followed by the wedding band, reflecting the natural order of their love story. This style also suits certain ring designs where the engagement setting sits more comfortably closest to the hand.
- Modern Style: Separate Hands or Finger
Many modern couples are reinterpreting tradition. You might wear your engagement ring on the right hand and your wedding band on the left, or alternate based on occasion. Some stack rings from different milestones, such as engagement, wedding, anniversary across both hands for a bold, meaningful look.
Practical Tips for Comfort and Care
Your engagement ring and wedding band are designed to last a lifetime — with proper care.
- Ensure the Perfect Fit: A snug yet comfortable fit ensures your rings stay secure without feeling tight. Have them professionally sized and remember that fingers can swell or contract with temperature.
- Clean Regularly and Gently: Keep your diamonds radiant by cleaning them with Royal Asscher cleaning solution, and a soft brush. Avoid harsh chemicals and schedule annual professional cleanings to maintain brilliance and check settings.
- Protect and Store Safely: Remove your rings before swimming, exercising, or sleeping to prevent damage. When not in use, store them separately in a Royal Asscher x WOLF jewelry case, featuring soft LusterLoc™ linings that protect and preserve your pieces.
Discover the WOLF x Royal Asscher Collection, including embroidered velvet jewelry boxes, travel cases, and watch rolls designed to keep your treasures beautifully secure.
Celebrate Your Love, Your Way
Whether you follow tradition or redefine it, your engagement ring and wedding band should reflect who you are. At Royal Asscher, every ring, from the first sparkle of proposal to the eternal brilliance of your wedding day, is designed to tell your love story with enduring beauty.
